No matter the role you’re playing - parent, friend, partner or leader - you just put all the variables in a graph and, boom, get your decision, right? Well, sorry to disappoint you, but that would be sci-fi, not reality. There's a lot of complexity in things people make for simple. It’s not just about your choices. It’s how you choose to make them. It has a lot to do with you body and mind's capabilities, of course, but here’s something that may across as new to you: choice is a competence that can be developed.